QUESTIONS I AM ASKED
If you heard the interview on my previous blog with Prince Turqi then you may recall that at the end he said, “Bring this camera along, I have many questions for you.” Our relationship started with questions and it will continue in them. I ask him just as many questions as he asks me - the same of my other friends like Shamil, Suhail, Zia, Long, Oliver (a real live Catholic!) and a host of others. I think one of the reasons people stay in their own sub-groups is because the more you get to know someone, the more vulnerable you are to their questions. There is a level of politeness that, if I don’t know you that well, then you shouldn’t ask me any potentially controversial question - and if you do - I don’t have to answer them.
How do you deal with all the questions? First, stay calm and listen to the whole question. Second, don’t feel like you have to give a dissertation. In the early days I gave way too much material way to fast. The simpler and more succinct the better. Third, don’t be afraid to say I don’t know, or I’m not sure but will get back to you on it. Fourth, be as prepared as you can be before you meet with people. If I’m going to a new part of the world, I read books and visit with people from that part. You’re never the first to meet with people - someone has already been where you are. If you can meet with them and ask them questions it helps. Fifth, have a spirit of adventure and a love of learning. It will not only give them answers, but you will grow as well in your own understanding. Finally - be honest in your answer - but also kind. Truth is known not in arrogance but in humility.
Here are some questions from the last week:
Do you really believe Jesus is the only way? from a Muslim friend
What do you Christians believe about the second coming? from a Muslim
Am I not worthy or have enough faith to see my daughter healed? from a mother
Can God really forgive someone like me who’s done so much bad? from a young man debating the question of Jesus
What is your opinion about the young man who became a Christian from a Muslim family whose father is a leader in Hamas? from an irish catholic
Why are so many evangelicals Christian Zionist? from a secular European
How would you start an American ethnic church planting network? from an Indian church planter
How can I pray for you? from an elder
What would you like to order? from a waiter
How do you do all you do? from a young pastor
What would you do differently if you were starting a church from scratch? from a young church planter
How do I explain the Trinity? from a new christian
What’s for dessert? from me to my wife!
Would you pray for me? from an older man seeking God
Do Americans get the world? from a Turkish driver
Did you pack your bags and have they been with you? from airport security
Why? you can finish the rest of the why did . . . . I get tons of those every week
Do you have hope? from a diplomat
What is your hope? from a diplomat


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