Big Brains of Energy Drains
For the past few months, I’ve been being coached by Admiral Ed Allen. He’s given me one of those slice and dice personality tests and leadership profiles followed by lots of sound counsel. It has been very, very beneficial. His style in coaching is different from what I’m used to, and took some getting used to. BUT, once I began to understand, it’s been really, really good. One of the big things he’s pushed me on is “constantly narrowing.” That’s nothing new. That’s always been a challenge. He’s helped me understand at a deeper level because of all I’m involved in how that when I don’t narrow my focus I wind up with less results and energy drains. The more effective you are at what you do, the more you have to constantly narrow because with effectiveness comes more opportunity. The question is, is it the right opportunity. When you engage something you don’t just look for immediate productivity--which has to be there--but also multiplication of what you are doing that leads to future productivity.
I look at the teaching style of Jesus and our learning style here in the West and all our talk of “redefining” church is still incredibly sick. After all the books, conferences, etc. where is the light at the end of the tunnel? Could it be that much of our attempt to “heal” the church is actually making us sicker? Are all the conferences, etc. a drain? Jesus was a peripatetic teacher. That means He walked around as He taught. He was busy doing ministry and the way you learned was to hang out with Him--not go to His seminar, or read His book, or visit His blog!
There are two important questions we are not asking today that we need to be asking. Where’s the fruit? Does the fruit remain? Books and seminars should be reflections of what we are living out and fruit that is remaining--not theories, ideas, or future projections. This is the Jesus way of learning. You learn by digging in the dirt and thinking while you’re out in the hot sun, following Him in bringing reconciliation to the world--not sitting in a cozy room or coffee shop snuggled up with a good “change the church” book. Does the church need to change? Would I look better if I dropped 20 pounds? Duh! I think we need to use conferences, seminars, blogs, etc., but do so virtually as we engage physically in the world.
Sooooo - this year, instead of spending all that money going to a conference why not go and serve the poor and suffering somewhere in the name of Jesus? There are many opportunities. If you don’t know of any, come go with NorthWood on a trip to Puebla, Mexico, work in an inner-city, or travel with us to Hanoi, Vietnam. I’ll give you some of my favorite readings and guys I think are the best, and while you sweat you read and in the evenings we debrief and talk. You can read any of the books I have on my blog, but there are others.
Got an idea! What if we had a “change the world conference?” We go and work for one week on a huge garbage dump--miles of it--in Jakarta and we work with the people who live there, serve them, and in the evenings debrief? Oh, oh, oh--there are parts of Sudan we could go to and do the same. What say ye? It won’t be entertaining, you will get sick, but you won’t die though you may feel like it. We will not give in to your whining. It would be an energy drain, but only physically - spiritually and for the people you serve it would be huge--any takers?



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Jan 29, 2008 at 09:11 AM
Our family is doing just that. My son Aidan, 11, is passionate about digging wells in Ghana. He raised enough money to finish a well in northern ghana. The pastor in that community has invited him to come and help dedicate the well. Our whole family is flying there this June. I'm thrilled.
We served nearly three years as church planters in France in very, very hard ground. I look forward to being on mission again, this time in serving the poor. May Jesus be represented well by our family, and may He do much in our hearts as we serve.
Bob, I've also spent the last several months being coached--about life message, focus, ministry, etc. It's been an invaluable experience.
Many blessings on your endeavors for the Kingdom,
Mary DeMuth
http://www.marydemuth.com
Jan 29, 2008 at 12:01 PM
[...] >> Bob Roberts talk about how that book or conference isn’t going to change your life. Doing something will. || “Books and seminars should be reflections of what we are living out and fruit that is remaining—not theories, ideas, or future projections. This is the Jesus way of learning. You learn by digging in the dirt and thinking while you’re out in the hot sun, following Him in bringing reconciliation to the world—not sitting in a cozy room or coffee shop snuggled up with a good “change the church ” book.” [...]----- [...] Too poor to survive and to rich to be supported In my latest Swaziland newsletter which you can read here, I make mention of the strange contradiction when those in high places consider which countries should receive foreign aid. Extreme poverty is defined by the World Bank as someone receiving less than $2 (US) per day - that’s $60 per month or around 450 Emalangeni (the Swazi currency). It is said that around 67% of Swaziland’s population not only receive less than $2 per day, but receive less than 45 cents (US) per day - that’s about 100 Emalangeni per month. To give you an idea how much this is worth, we bought all the volunteers in our Home-Based Caring project a food parcel for Christmas, consisting of a small bag of rice, a small bag of sugar, a packet of tea bags, six candles, a bar of soap and a small tin of fish. This worked out at slightly less than 100 Emalangeni as we were able to negotiate a discount due to the number of items we had bought. And did I mention that around 40% of the population are unemployed? Seemingly this situation isn’t bad enough yet. In spite of the conditions under which the largest part of the population have to live, Swaziland cannot be categorised as a low income country by the World Bank. The reason: The average income of the population is too high. Certainly, Swaziland does have a number of extremely affluent people, such as certain farmers, businessmen and people with profitable enterprises. But their wealth is doing very little to better the life situation of those receiving little or no money. You should read the full report on this situation here. What annoys me the most about this situation is that people make decisions about others while sitting in air-conditioned boardrooms, relaxing in chauffeur-driven limousines or while flying from one place to another in a luxury jet. It becomes so easy to become totally blind for the real needs of people if you have never been exposed to their actual living conditions. Bob Roberts wrote something really amazing on his blog today. In this post, which he calls Big Brains of Energy Drains, he invites people to join him in experiencing what is really happening in the lives of other people: Got an idea - what if we had a change the world conference - we go and work for 1 week on a huge garbage dump - miles of it - in Jakarta and we work with the people who live there, serve them, and in the evenings debrief? Oh, oh, oh - there are parts of Sudan we could go to and do the same - what say ye? It won’t be entertaining, you will get sick - but you won’t die though you may feel like it - we will not give in to your whining - It would be an energy drain - but only physically - spiritually and for the people you serve it would be huge blessing - any takers? What happens in boardrooms around the world happens in conference rooms in churches as well. We lose our focus for the world because we are never exposed to what is really going on in other communities. So perhaps I need to echo what Bob Roberts said: What about spending time in the homes of the sick and the dying in Swaziland instead of going on a luxury holiday? Isn’t that what Jesus may have done if He had been living as a human Person on earth today? [...]-----
Jan 29, 2008 at 01:34 PM
WOW!!! This kind of talk gets me pumped up!!!! As Mission Issues asks "Isn’t that what Jesus may have done if He had been living as a human Person on earth today? I believe that's what I learned in the bible...so why not let us each be more "Christ like". Yes, Jesus had meetings, but he was also a "hands on, get-r-dun type of guy". I can assure you, not only will the people you serve be blessed, but you will receive life altering blessings for your faithfulness. Just look above at 11 year old Aidan...my bet is that his life was changed by his parents work in France...and that young man is about to affect hundreds in Ghana. Let's quit yaking and start serving the poor, sick and dying wherever God would lead us.
Jan 30, 2008 at 07:21 AM
Great Message!! I'm looking forward to my first trip to Vietnam in October.
Feb 2, 2008 at 12:59 PM
It seems like a pretty simple and easy concept, doesn't it? I wonder when we're gonna figure out that it doesn't do any good to just sit around and talk about it, put on conferences, write books, debate, etc. If we aren't practicing what we're learning and writing about then it's all pointless. The Bible gives us such an easy picture of what "doing church" looks like, and how to "engage cultures, and societies". Don't get me wrong, i LOVE the books i've read...many have had a tremendous impact on my life. What sucks is when so many of us choose to be the TOP students of "church planting", and different ways/models of doing church, but not putting any of it into practice. Some even put a few things into practice, but refuse to look at the fruit produced, and the fruit that remains like you're talking about, Bob. You've taught me a lot. You've encouraged me tremendously. These things just seem so basic, ya know? Why does our culture/country have such a hard time taking basic Biblical principles and putting them into practice? Hmmm....thanks for pushing me to do so, and encouraging me to stay focused. You rock. JAM.
Feb 2, 2008 at 07:37 PM
Whew!
That spanks me, and I appreciate it.
Feb 3, 2008 at 04:46 AM
Aaron - don't you ever ever ever forget what you just wrote - writing and speaking should be from the context of practice - not theory or ideas. It's one thing to market a book, it's another thing to be a part of seeing a city or community transformed. Hey - met some guy in Orlando from Vegas who met you and liked you a lot. I'm so so so so proud of you Aaron - keep moving forward - when you stumble a little, me and Jesus will be there - bob
Feb 6, 2008 at 11:25 AM
I have been pretty anti-conference of any type for quite a while (http://www.worshiptrench.com/?p=84). Why go sit when in a worship context I could go to someone's church and actually worship and sit down and talk with their leaders afterwards. From a missions standpoint, I'd learn much more going on a service trip with someone who is farther down the road in their development querying them along the way about their strategies and philosophies. I vote the next Glocalnet conference is on a trash dump somewhere in the world.
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